Odd Girl Out

I would like to recommend a “must read” to middle school counselors. (Also, high school and elementary counselors could benefit by reading this book.) It is Rachel Simmons’ book, “Odd Girl Out”. It discusses the subtle bullying and aggression of young girls toward each other. There are wonderful case studies that any one of us could have written and there are suggestions for parents, teachers, and counselors. This book has given me new insight into the world of girls who use backbiting, exclusion, rumors, name-calling, and manipulation to inflict psychological pain on targeted victims, other girls. Many girls in the 11-14 age range have endured such pain to an extent that it has marred relationships for the rest of their lives. Middle school counselors need to read this one.